“The Road Less Travelled” by Dr.
Scott Peck, a psychotherapist sheds light on the psychology of love,
traditional values and spiritual growth. The author explains the emotional pain
and suffering that people go through irrespective of their age, experience,
wisdom and upbringing. Using numerous examples of his patients, the author
gives the reader an insight to why people suffer psychologically in the first
place; what’s really going wrong?
Meanwhile he discusses the four
important key points that are necessary for one to achieve harmony in life –
delaying gratification, taking the responsibility, dedication to reality and
withholding truth. These four are narrated in a strange but appealing fashion. Someone
who can delay gratification has the key to psychological maturity, whereas
impulsiveness is a mental habit. Most large problems are the result of not
facing up to earlier, smaller problems, of failing to be ‘dedicated to the
truth’. Another great mistake most people make is believing that problems will
go away of their own accord. This is utter lack of responsibility will damages
them in other ways. Discipline is not only about ‘growing up’ in terms of
accepting reality, but in the appreciation of the tremendous range of choices
that exist.
Then, he defines how one’s psychology
is molded giving utmost importance to parenting. Later on, the book attempts to
define the true meaning of love, quite contrasting with its conventional
notion, and how it leads one to make serious effort to overcome the problems
lying within his mind. Having explained all these things eloquently, it moves
to the discussion of religion and thence God’s grace.
In a nutshell the author has made a
good attempt to bridge the gap between the scientific and spiritual world views
with reasoning and pure intellect. This self-help book is full of new life
changing insights.
“Once you admit that life is difficult, the
fact is no longer of
great consequence. Once you accept responsibility, you can
make better choices.” – The Road Less Travelled
great consequence. Once you accept responsibility, you can
make better choices.” – The Road Less Travelled
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