Every now and then, life punches below the belt. How can you be resilient when times get tough and you feel bad?
There
are all kinds of strategies for feeling happier and showing grit. But
most of them are very conscious and deliberate. And the truth is, most
of what we do every day isn’t all that conscious and deliberate.
Ever since Freud, we’ve known that a lot of our behavior is unconscious. If that’s the case, shouldn’t you leverage your unconscious mind to get through the tough times? Only makes sense, right?
Now I don’t know much about my unconscious mind. (I mean, it’s unconscious, right?) So I called an expert on the subject…
Tim Wilson is a professor of psychology at the University of Virginia and author of Strangers to Ourselves: Discovering the Adaptive Unconscious and Redirect: Changing the Stories We Live By.
Tim has some, well, mind-blowing
insights about how your brain really works. You’re gonna learn a lot
about how that grey matter functions, how to fix it when it can’t cope,
and you’ll even find out how to get to know yourself better to avoid
future messes, how to stay happy when things suck, and even how to
become a better human being in the process. (Now how’s that for value?)
But
I do need to make a disclaimer first: I’m gonna have to shake your
confidence in yourself a bit before we fix it. We need to correct some
myths — and some of the truths are a little disturbing. Hang with me.
We’ll get you back to the Shire, Frodo.
Alright,
forget what you think you know about how your mind works. You’re wrong
about a lot of stuff. In fact, you’re wrong about you…
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